Thursday, May 16, 2013

The Facebook Generation

--> Note: I wrote this a few weeks ago but wasn't sure if I wanted to post it or not. Hopefully you guys like it:

Today in class, a group gave a presentation about a company, analyzing the company and offering recommendations and ways to implement those recommendations. After the presentation, our professor asked one of the other groups (the class is split into eight groups) to respond to the recommendations provided by the presenting group. Now, as a prelude to this story, I should mention that our professor has made the fatal mistake of allowing students to use laptops in class. As they had not listened to a word of the presentation, the second group offered up a series of vague, business-school-sounding responses that made me cringe, and that in no way related to anything the presenting group had discussed. It was like watching this woman talk about Obama being a communist. Yep. “Just study it out”.
            Anyway, apart from making me feel pretty uncomfortable for a few minutes (My life is so hard), it made me think about our Facebook and iPhone culture, and how much it affects everything we do.
            Since I have been at college, it has been common in most classes to find the majority of my peers staring at a laptop screen for the entirety of each class, playing around on Facebook, Twitter, Sporkle, sending out carefully thought-out e-mails to sorority sisters, or pretty much anything the internet has to offer. There was a kid in my calc class freshman year that would play online poker…while watching several youtube videos (at the same time) of other people playing poker (!). It’s hard not to see the irony in millions of kids (or their parents) paying thousands a year in tuition so that they can ignore almost every word of each of their professors’ lectures. I understand that it’s very much just about getting the grade and the degree, and that a lot of what we learn doesn’t have a bearing on our future, but it’s still a world-class education taking a backseat to “angry birds”. And I’m guilty of it too. True, I don’t bring my computer to class, and the coolest thing my cell phone can do is tell me what time it is in Chicago, but that hasn’t stopped me from spending several 85-minute lectures daydreaming about food or girls or whatever else has been on my mind during the past four years.
            The thing is, this lack of focus doesn’t only pertain to school. It’s everywhere in the technology age. We watch T.V. while doing our homework. We surf the internet while watching T.V. We play video games while surfing the internet while streaming T.V. shows. That last one is a little extreme but trust me, I’ve seen it. I had a professor who said that our generation loves to multitask, meaning that we do a half-assed job of several activities at once. It’s hard to resist with so much technology at our disposal, but it tends to be rewarding when we do ignore it, focusing only on one activity and being in the moment.
            I remember when I bought “Tea for the Tillerman” by Cat Stevens, my mom told me how she and her siblings would gather around her brother’s record player and listen to the album nonstop when it originally came out. I asked her if they would do anything else while the record played. She replied with a no- they just sat and listened. That stuck with me, especially as I often lose sight of how entertaining music can be on its own, if we just give it proper attention. Treating music as its own activity feels great and allows us as listeners to get so much more out of an album. Ok, maybe “Skinny Jeanz and a Mic” doesn’t quite merit the Cat Stevens treatment, but you get what I’m saying.
            I guess all of this is just pretty disheartening. It’s not fun to have a “conversation” with someone as they text/Facebook while you’re talking. It’s not fun to share something important with someone else only to have him or her treat it as background noise. I’m afraid that if/when I have kids, they will be little monsters raised by the internet, incapable of looking away from screens, never stopping to notice the beauty in the little things in the world around them. I know that I am guilty of some of the things I’ve mentioned above, and I can only try to get better every day. I hope this post didn’t come off as preachy; I really just wanted to share some thoughts. Well, until next time, here’s some Cat Stevens:


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